Sunday, May 30, 2010

Helping Hand

Royal,

I am a 48 year old woman. I love this site, particularly Helping Hand, which is what I'm writing for right now. I recently found a bump on my breast and fear I have breast cancer. I have a strong marriage and loving children (2 boys and a girl, all in their teens.) but I am afraid that this is too much for them to take if I do have cancer. I wish I knew what the right thing to do is, I don't want to risk my health but at the same time, I can't out all that stress on my family. Royal please tell me what you would do. ~Health Hazard

HH,

Stop making excuses and get to the doctors office right away. Your family is there to support you and your husband took vows to be there in sickness and health. Right now the most important thing is getting yourself looked at,and finding out if you are sick or not. Please email and let us know what your diagnosis is.

Royal,

This is sort of an odd question but I have to ask. My boyfriend and I recently had a conversation where he said that he will never have sex with me. Let me clarify we do have sex just no penetration, and I found his statement to be odd, seeing as how many people warned me that he was a slut when he was younger. Should I be concerned that he's not attracted to me or should I be honored that he doesn't want to discard me like the rest of the boys he slept with. ~Shaken Up

Shaken,

I don't think I fully understand what you're trying to say but I will try to help as best as I can. If you are concerned about the fact that your bf isn't wanting to penetrate then I have to say that if it's that important you need to speak with him about it, If you're jealous of what may have happened in the past, you need to get over it, whatever happened in the past, happened and it made him who he is today so enjoy it.
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