Sunday, May 2, 2010

Helping Hand: Sex Tape, Whose The Daddy, More

Royal,

I'm in quite the pickle. I found out that I'm pregnant, which would be a great thing if I was certain that my fiancee was the father. See a few months ago at an office party, I had a few too many and slept with a co-worker. I don't consider myself a bad person, but I was already wracked with guilt and now it is so much worse.I know I have to tell my fiancee but this will devastate him beyond anything else. Please help me find the words to let such a great guy down. ~Baby Mama

Baby Mama,

I think someone has watched one too many soap operas. In all seriousness I am glad that you are going to tell him and not try to pass the baby off as his. I'll tell you what I tell everyone else, the best way to break bad news is to just say it. Tell him 'I slept with my co-worker.' Don't try to explain away your actions, if you are a good person like you say you are, let him process the news before you give him excuses.

Royal,

I can't stop crying. My husband left me on our 3 year anniversary. He said that he was sick of me never doing anything without him and that I was suffocating him. We'd been together for a total of 10 years, and I have no idea what I'm going to do now. Please give me some guidance. ~Lost In London

London,

First get a personality. Get some spunk, It is sad when a relationship ends. Especially one that was as long as yours was but you can't let it get you to the point where you don't know what to do. Your life has to continue with or without your husband, take each day one at a time. Go to work, talk to friends ect. You will be ok!!

Royal,

My bf and I filmed a sex tape, it was suppose to be just for us. I came home one day to find him watching it with a group of friends and they were all masturbating to it. I don't consider myself a prude but I feel like he crossed a lot of lines by doing that act with a group of friends and by showing something that was suppose to be private between us. I don't want to break up with him but I can't forgive either. What would you do? ~Feel Like Paris Hilton

Feel,

Trust is the single most important part of a relationship. If you have lost trust in him, get that sex tape, destroy it and all copies and be done with it. You should feel some measure of happiness that your bfs little party didn;t go farther than what you caught them doing. If that's the part that is upsetting you I suggest the same thing. If you can;t get over it, if you can't forgive then it may be time to move on.
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